You better know and love Stevie Wonder, though. All I found there was mountains of shittiness glorifying whiteness without talking about maintaining my space and identity in my relationship. I like a nice bubble butt. The white male respondents employed what I refer to as a discourse of racial comparisons.
So, he lives with the knowledge and reminders that whiteness is a globally enforced, psychological terror system that is utterly destructive and he has to constantly work at not being an agent for that system. He noted that he tends to specifically notice this on black women and not other racial groups, which is not necessarily surprising as there tends to be a preoccupation among whites with blacks, more so than with other racial and ethnic groups. Black people are different, though. These couples supplied their children with the privileges that their social and economic status afforded while living in predominantly white suburban areas. Second, this book gives voice to white men who are dating, married to, or divorced from black women.