And I could not for the life of me break away. They're looking for white men, and they see me as a threat. But L says her friends were mostly joking - egging her on in the offensive way that friends do sometimes - whereas L was dead serious about the larger mission at hand. SHAW: And was part of you also just like, and don't police my bedroom choices? But that's not what rom-com heroines do, especially not overzealous-planner types.
But, like, you said that you're only attracted to white guys. This strategy ensured that they used their race and gender privileges for the good of the family. I started thinking about the media and asking myself what qualities I was actually attracted to in a man, specifically my boyfriend, versus what qualities I'd been taught to find attractive. Yowei now continues with her story.