And he would be very surprised if you were determined to do it yourself without accepting any help at all. So Russian men crush your body, not because they want to hurt you, but out of an excess of feeling. Don't take it as an attack to your individuality, but as a form of respect for you.
And unless you have alcohol issues, you are welcome to join him too in a social setting. Women in Russia are expected to follow the lead of the men and be attractive. Some of these services cater primarily for middle-aged women who might have gone through a divorce already or be tired of relationships with their fellow countrymen. Some cultural pointers Personal space is not so important in Russia; when there, you will see people standing quite close to each other and talking animatedly but not loudly.