The upside: moving too quickly rarely happens, which not only gives both people a chance to really take their time and understand their feelings, it also preserves that sublime, always-too-fleeting, beginning time in the relationship. The guilt is just always there. Confusion comes with the territory. Based in Haddenfield, N.
Take time to think through the process and to communicate and share, and things are likely to go more smoothly. Looking forward to that business trip even though you have to leave the kids at home? If your child at any point expresses serious reservations about your new partner, listen carefully.