People with the Commander personality type are in it to win, and will gladly take leading roles in relationships from the start, assuming personal responsibility for how smoothly things go and working actively to ensure a mutually rewarding experience. INFJs are very single-minded about their goals and they enjoy having a partner who enjoys strategizing and encouraging them and who they can also encourage. Overall, they are wanting trust, shared values, commitment, and good listening skills in a relationship. What Are Your Thoughts?
This makes it hard for them to understand that other people require emotional support and connection to feel happy in a relationship. These characters are a little scarcer in the world than some other personalities as they make up an estimated three percent of the population. For them it is about learning what they want, or even just getting to know new people. ENTJs are outgoing people and they do pay attention to the behavior of others and what seems to interest them.