I was fully aware that he had blond hair and blue eyes when I met him, obviously, but I didn't really understand what that meant until years later. The work often fell on their black wives to teach them how they navigated the world as white middle class men. Alicia Keys comes to mind.
Sometimes I forget about the way that things are in other parts of the country, or the world. It's time to talk about that. I expected things to be similar to the way they were in high school. I have to be honest here and say that women of African ancestry are often not lacking in the hips and "booty" either as many from other background sometimes are a bit….