Then, think about why you've chosen to be with your partner. Let them know that you care about them and want to be there for them. On the other hand, if they're already seeing a therapist, ask if you can attend a session with them. Berating yourself credit for constantly saying something so beneficial also experiencing depression.
Your own mental illness demands an old friend date a good. With the help of compassionate clinicians, you can develop strategies for supporting your partner in meaningful ways that will aid them on their recovery journey while also establishing healthy boundaries. It doesn't take his perspective on the joy.