Success with autism or any kind of challenge comes from knowing you have incredible things to offer. They need support and services in the areas of relationships, social care, living skills, respite and community integration, health, housing, education, employment, etc. You may become very uncomfortable and tell them that you do not want any further contact in any form, but they will keep contacting and pursuing you. They have poor impulse control and easily become frustrated and angry. She's super supportive, empathetic, and kind.
No one can keep up an act forever. It's when you're able to do this that you can genuinely enjoy dating without pressure. We try our best to say the right things and do the right things. In adulthood, that translates to full-blown stalking.