Some families need to speak to someone other than their parents or family and therapy is a good idea to get children who suppress their feelings, to deal with their grief. And, you know, that was a nonjudgmental group that I knew I could say, oh my gosh, I had this awful date the other night, listen to this. But the swim also marked a shift in my widowhood.
And, you know, I met a very nice man through that route and maybe other people can as well. And let me say this as carefully as possible. George Shelley fights back tears in documentary about sister's tragic death One meet up last summer ended after my sleazy date started making very overt sexual references. I mean, as you both pointed out, you don't get married with the idea that you're going to lose the person who you've loved and pledged to love.